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The House Where I Finally Grew Up
We sold our home in southern California this week. And by coincidence, last week my youngest sister sold her house, the one my parents bought 48 years ago. I never think about my childhood home. I lived there for eight … Continue reading
Posted in adventures, Aging, changes, community, everyday life, Family, houses, moving, transitions
Tagged adulthood, changes, daughters, mothers, moving, southern California
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Lost in Transition
This has been a year of transitions. We moved across country. We became grandparents. My parents moved in with us. We became poster children for the sandwich generation. I have become lost in the ever increasing demands of my household. … Continue reading
Uprooted
My yard smells like Christmas, the fresh pine smell of cut trees. But this is not the holiday. The normally comforting and cheery aroma comes from a dying tree. During Hurricane Sandy, an eastern White Pine, around fifty feet tall, … Continue reading
Posted in adventures, backyards, everyday life, life, Life in Connecticut, moving, nature, New England, storms, transitions, Uncategorized
Tagged changes in life, fallen trees, moving, storms
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Squirrels!
In April, three weeks after we moved into our Connecticut house, gray squirrels appeared, boldly crossing the lawn and playing pickup games on the basketball court. Outraged by the invasion, the female pointer would race from window to window, woofing … Continue reading
Posted in backyards, everyday life, life, Life in Connecticut, moving, nature, New England, Uncategorized, wildlife
Tagged California, chipmunks, Connecticut, fall, Maine, nature, squirrels, winter
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Tranquility and the Sport of Running
Running along the narrow path between the trees along the river, I feel something spiritual yet primitive. These are feelings that I cannot accurately label. I feel my feet hit the path; I hear the leaves moving as the dogs … Continue reading
Posted in adventures, Aging, changes, everyday life, Life in Connecticut, moving, nature, running, transitions, Uncategorized
Tagged aging, changes, Connecticut, running
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A Stranger in a Strange Land
Sometimes I think I have moved to a foreign country, one where everyone speaks English but I don’t recognize the words. The rules are similar; the customs are familiar, but I’m missing some crucial piece of information that everyone else … Continue reading
Posted in Aging, changes, childhood memories, community, everyday life, Family, life, Life in Connecticut, moving, New England, transitions
Tagged beaches, Connecticut, moving, small towns, SoCal, transitions
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Life with Dogs
This is my grandson’s chair: This is the dog that sat in the chair and smashed it: An almost 70 pound German Shorthair Pointer. Why? Perhaps because he was mad at me for locking them all in the sunroom when … Continue reading
Posted in changes, dogs, everyday life, Family, lessons in life, moving, nature, relationships, transitions
Tagged dogs, family, life lessons, moving, relationships, stress
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Part 10: Our New Nest
How important is the place where one lives? Is the building itself important? Or is it the way one feels when one retreats to one’s abode? Is home the heart? The mind? A fortress? A retreat? What makes a house … Continue reading
Posted in clutter, community, Family, houses, life, marriage, moving, relationships, transitions, Uncategorized
Tagged family, homes, life, moving, new homes, relationships, transitions, unpacking
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Part 9: Road Trip!
After the movers came and went, after we said our good byes to neighbors and friends, after we spent one last night in the house where we had lived for twenty-one years, we put the dogs in the truck, secured … Continue reading
Posted in childhood memories, Family, marriage, moving, relationships, transitions, travel
Tagged family, marriage, memories, relationships, transitions, travel
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Part 8: A Truly Empty Nest
A note: I wrote this before we closed on the house but never got to posting it. The next few posts should bring us up-to date. Stay tuned. Leaving home is what young people do. Children become teenagers, dreaming of … Continue reading
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Tagged family relationships, friends, memories, moving, transitioning households
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